You may think it to be a good deed to celebrate the birthday of your child at an orphanage. It may look like a great approach to do goodwill as charity should always be done. It makes the world a better and a kinder place to survive. However, an influencer, parent, educator, and mother named, Ambika Agarwal feels that one should never celebrate your child’s birthday at an orphanage. Ambika, who is known to make parenting videos, shared the reasons why your child’s birthday should not be celebrated at an orphanage.
Ambika Agarwal, a parent, shares why the birthdays of children should not be celebrated at an orphanage
Ambika, recently made a reel video wherein, she revealed the reasons for not celebrating your child’s birthday at the orphanage. She revealed in her caption that psychological research indicated that such repeated exposure heightens feelings of exclusion and injustice, leading to deep-seated resentment and bitterness over time. This prolonged sense of deprivation has been linked to increased emotional distress, hostility, and a diminished ability to form positive social bonds. It might seem like a great way to teach your kids gratitude and kindness. But let’s flip the coin to see the truth. Her reel post further read:
“While your child is cutting the cake, feeling loved and hugging you, the child at the orphanage is realising they have no one to hug. While your child is celebrating their family, the child at the orphanage is reminded they don’t have one. Do you see it? This is not kindness is actually a reminder of what they lack! When children are reminded of what they don’t have it doesn’t inspire them instead fills them with bitterness, anger and hatred.”